Saturday, June 30, 2018

Guides For Dating Couples

Dating is as sweet as anything when love is found in the sight of someone who really have same feelings for you and the both of you are moving in the fast lane of love, that's true friendship.

In the other way round, dating can also be a complex and complicating situation when you found yourself dating someone who is not connected to you or have no feelings, all you see are his or her appearance. believe me, it will be very difficult for it to work.

At the beginning of dating someone, it is always filled with the sweetness of love, but after getting to some limit, it fades along the line and that determines either the both couple will move on with their relationship, or call it a day.

The Truth Is:

One needs to understand his or her purpose of dating and why you are into it, mostly, people date in the name of love, while others date for the pleasure or for the game.

Note That, dating is not a use and dump affair where you take someone's mind as a public toilet. it is only meant for those who are mature and responsible enough to tackle with their relationship.

In the beginning, dating has always been a very good courtship between two individuals, it is a trial to know how ready his or she is to tackle with their marriage life and how far it will go.

In a normal state, there are always outstanding challenges when dating someone and if the mind is not strong, or mature enough, the friendship will end instantly without giving you a second chance of trial.

dating someone requires sacrifice, facing harmful obstacles, and broken bridges to fix,

Imagine after many years of dating and along the line you gave up, that means  you are immature to bare its problems on your shoulders.

The purpose of dating is love, understanding and sacrifice, it also requires ones mind to be mature in other for it to grow, and if you are dating someone, let it be for the love and who he or she is, not for the game, money or pleasure.

Never date someone who is attracted to your looks or with the shape of you, believe me, it will be a waste of time having fake feelings for someone who doesn't deserve it, be patience to wait for the one who will love you without border and not how you look.

Many started dating at an early age and got married, while others found themselves into it all in the name of love, love can be found in a hopeless place, only by fate determines how the love will be. Nowadays, dating is over emphasized due to its evolvement leading two couples into crisis and broken relationship.

Mostly, it is well known that women are commonly heart broken due to their fragile and easy going mind when falling for the words of a man and later realizing that it was all a blank, leading them into a rogue state of thinking and are likely to do something illegal. If as a man dating a woman for many years and later call it a day, believe me, she will cause you and it shall be your portion, say amen.

Here Is What To Do, Before Jumping Into A Date With Someone.

First, ask yourself this question, Am I Ready To Date...Why Do I Want To Date?...this are common questions every dating applicant should ask within themselves.

In A Paragraph Above, it was well stated that most people just date for the pleasure or the game. while others are for the love. If you are in between the first paragraph, it means you are not prepared.

One needs to understand the true definition of love which should be at the center of your mind and also be put into practice in other to guide you on which path to take either in good or bad situation. In other words, when you let love lead the way, no form of any obstacle can stop your friendship from growing,

Zero your mind from any negative thoughts, and your purpose of dating that person should be in the name of love and let it be beautiful.

Lastly, if you are dating a stranger, he or she must be well known and understand each other before anything else, always love and support each other in all cost and any point of time, and if the knot is well tighten and moving well, you can take a further step into the courtship of marriage.

In Conclusion:

Always remember that Dating is a trial, and think wisely before choosing your partner in other to avoid any regrets in the future. If possible, study his or her lifestyle, character, and ways of living in other to know if you are compatible to tackle with the friendship, and if you cant, you should know what to do.

Wednesday, June 27, 2018

Guides For A Happy Marriage

Marriage is the joining together of a man and a woman to become one union. Nowadays, marriage has turned into something else in the sight of every living being, where some believe and put it into practice, while others take it as a not compulsory courtship.

The Truth Is:

Marriage is compulsory and should be acknowledged. Even in the bible, it was stated that Jesus attended a wedding feast at cana. Read John Chapter 2 Verse 1 to12. For More Clarification.

Marriage can also be a bound between two couples in agreement to become one soulmate,

In the other way round, marriage can also be a complicated situation along the line, but at the end, you will find peace and unity within yourself, depending how you go about doing it.

Many people today have abandoned their marriage life for one reason or another, while others continues to remain patience, faithful, and loyal to themselves in the courtship of their marriage life.

Before taking a lip of faith into marriage, you should prepare your mind for any incoming task and also read its description before jumping into it. Please note that marriage is meant for mature and responsible people who are ready to take responsibilities of it.

80% percent of men today impregnate a woman, give her a place to stay in his apartment and later claim he is married to her!, is that marriage?, to me, I boldly say no.

At least, it will better for the man to go into a little process like paying for her bride price before thinking of taking her, and later on, if he is mature enough, you can allow marriage into the courtship.

Marriage has never been easy to tackle with, even from its word, it may sound simple, and if you have no clue of how it works, you will be tripped in the middle of nowhere and may end up calling it a day. Like i said earlier, it is only meant for mature and responsible people.

The courtship of marriage can be over emphasized due to its requirement for one to bare. marriage is all about you having the patience to understand, love, and support one another at any point in life, either in good or bad condition.

Generally, it is well known that every marriage applicant pass through a trail called - Dating, before thinking about getting married. This trial serves as a proof to show how mature and if they are really meant to be soulmates.

Normally, marriage can be processed in different ways, the common ones are: white, traditional and court marriage.

In some cases, before and after the marriage, there is always a conflict between both couple and their families in a disagreement between a matter arising situation on the bride's price, insufficient funds, or fighting for other related issues in other to spoil the name of the marriage in one way or another, and at the end of the conflict is either the couples go their own separate ways or call it a day with a divorce.

Here Is What To Do, In Other To Tackle Your Marriage Life.

First, invite the presence of God in other for him to guide you on what to do, so that your marriage can go well.

If you know that the relationship is going well and you think the both of you are compatible, make a step forward by asking her hand in marriage, believe me, she will be  waiting to hear those words, and her answers is a YES. as a responsible and mature man, you should know its about time to take a second step by paying for her bride price, and make sure you settle every bills be for anything else, in other to avoid any further problems within the day of your marriage.

If you wish to take more further step, create time for the both of you to sit and discuss about how the marriage will be, and if possible, you can get the attention of those who has passed through the process of marriage and let them council and guide you about how it is and what to do in other to tackle your marriage life. You can also hire a counselor or someone you know that can guide you on how to start the marriage, you can also get the attention of your parents to guide you on it, because they were the one that knows how it was when they started theirs.

After that, make a list of what will be needed on the day of the D day, and also make a budget of how much will be needed for all the products and requirement, in other to avoid any incoming problems.

After the marriage the parents of both couple should assemble and give the couples all the blessings they need to live a happy married life and be prosperous in life and for the betterment of their union to be bound as one.

Note That:

On the D day, there is always a moment when some unexpected event occurs in other to spoil the marriage, so it is advised to hire some security service, in other to avoid any further problems.

In addition, it will be better to get married in private without notifying the public. because it is the only way to find peace, love, and unity within you and your to be married wife. because there are those who don't want to see you happy.

Most people don't know about this way of marriage, because it is not common. but it will be better to conduct your marriage life in your own way.

In Conclusion:

A marriage without the blessings and presence of God is totally useless, because with his presence, no form of confusion will come your way and it is advisable to put God first before taking any step into marriage.

Sunday, June 24, 2018

The Life Of A Responsible Man

A responsible man is the one who loves, care and provide for his families no matter how hard the situation may be, he faces a lot of challenges in life in other for him to keep his title as a man. As the day goes by, he struggles so hard to fix problems within him.

Nowadays, the statistical aspect of a responsible man is evolving, changing every thinking and responsibility as a man which has also affected their brotherhood in general.

Many families today are broken due to the lack of the man's immature, irresponsible, and the unavailability duties to his families. Mostly, the problems are infidelity or insufficient ways for income.

As a responsible man, it is your duty to get a job or business doing for the availability of income in other to avoid any further problems in the future and also for a better, peaceful and happy family. It is also a must responsibility for a man to give listening ears, attention and support to his children.

The journey of a responsible man is like an adventurous task filled with outstanding obstacles in every step he takes, as he journeys continuously, he will fall and get wounded along the line, and at the end of his journey, is either he made it successfully to his destination or he failed.

Before been called a responsible man you must be ready to journey into the bad lands. In fact, you will need to shield your self with weapons, maps, foods, strength and the ability to overcome any obstacle that may come your way. Also note that, this journey is not meant for lazy, unprepared and immature minds.
The Truth Is:

Every man has his own opinion, ways and state of reasoning before thinking of making a lip, the mistakes of modern men today are the lack of using his knowledge before jumping into his wants.

Before taking a lip of faith into the journey of life, a man should make a sketch of how he wants to live his life and also put God first in every step he takes, that alone will guide him into the success of life.

Another common mistake a man makes is to marry a woman he is not enriched to take care of as a wife, believe me, it will be a waste of time to marry a woman when you are not financially stable. It is also bad to be in this state and impregnate the innocent woman when you are not ready to take responsibilities. You married her for a purpose and not for her to suffer in the name of love, Believe it or not, a woman who can not endure for too long may call it a day or leave you for someone else due to your immature mind of taking the responsibilities.

Here Is What To Do:

In other to live a happier lifestyle as a man. Keep and quote this at the center of your mind.

"No Man Is A Failure Who Uses His Knowledge Wisely And Also Put God First In Every Situation".

Before taking a step into the street life, make a plan of how you want to live, struggle, earn, and survive. Always remember that life is temporary nothing, meaning is vanity.

It will be better to earn little from the life and do something big with it, it can either be a good job or business, also, don't forget to pay your tithe for more open doors.


Mapping a good structure of your life and putting it into practice will impact and build a bound of success in your life.

Now, it is time to think about getting your own family...First, build your own apartment and make provision of the kind of woman you wish to have as wife, always remember to choose wisely.

After the marriage, discuss with her on the number of children you wish to have in other for a well constructed family. After all that, it is now to prove how responsible and mature you are to build your happy home and to be called a man.

Also, learn to understand, share, and be open to your wife if she's the loyal, faithful, understanding, and humble type. It helps build a bound of love and also a happy home.

After many years of accomplishing the success of becoming a man in training and supporting the family, it is now time to show your children the steps of becoming something useful in life.


Training A Child In The Ways And Steps Of God Is A Must Duty To Take, So That When He Or She Grows Up, They Will Never Depart From It And Also Showcase This Feature To Their Unborn Childrens

Without the knowledge of your wife, children or anyone. prepare a special and hidden place to store a specific amount of money in separate form, and paste a sum of half a million or either more or less, depending the number of your children.


If you are in a critical situation or at the point of leaving the world. Write a short note or make a short video clip explaining every details of the money you hide, if possible, you can tell your wife about it or someone you trust 101 percent.

After many years of struggling and hardship, it will be time for you to retire from your job or business and think of something else to do. If possible, it will be better to give a full attention to your creator - God.

After many years training and guiding your children on how to live their lives, they are now grown and mature enough to get started with life. Now is the time to gather and discuss with them on how they want to make use their lives, and after listening to their mindset, it will be better to give them your own suggestion in other for them to be successful and when the time comes for them to start their own journey of life, give them the tools they need to work with.

Secret is always where it is meant to be. At this point, you should know it's about time to give them the package you have been hiding for a long time, and it will be better to give them by surprise in other to avoid misunderstanding among themselves and also guide them on how to use it well. This alone will build a foundation and a generation of love, peace, and unity among the unborn ones.
In Conclusion:

Every man needs to achieve the success of becoming a useful creature in the sight of every living kind in other for them to capture his footsteps of becoming useful features.

Also remember that God is the only way of achieving success in life and without his presence, everything becomes useless.

Thursday, June 14, 2018

The True Purpose Of Blogging

Blogging today has grown rapidly fast where thousands of people are so passionate of sharing their creativity. 

Blogging is an open source for sharing ones knowledge on a specific reason, it can be sharing true life stories, one's hubby, entertainment or either for fun. 

Nowadays in the sphere of blogging, 95 percent of bloggers focus their attention on making money from their blog, while others focus on the sharing aspect of useful information in other to help solve certain problems.

Globally, thousands of people today in the world are rapidly joining the community of bloggers, increasing it's size and growth so fast.

The daily increase of new bloggers has changed and also affect the weather climate of blogging poisoning the mindset of upcoming bloggers to give their attention for money leading them to exchange the creativity they posses for the love of money,  without notice, it has destroys and  affect them.

Blogging is a free platform of sharing ones mind freely. It requires passion, patience, attention and time. impatience, laziness, and lack of hard works are seen as a waste of time in the sphere of blogging.

One needs to apply the format of passion in other to build a relationship between the readers giving them the very possible attention they require to get from you, within a short time your progress in blogging will grow well. 

Note That:

Anything that will last longer, takes long. be patience in all what you do, Even a true farmer understand the needs of being patient supporting it with the laws of growth in knowing the time for seeding and harvesting. 

Growth is in inches and not in meters,  the higher it wish to go, the deeper down it must get. don't be in a hurry to see instant growth because you will all be disappointed. 

Have the patience to watch things grow, if you cant, it means you lack understanding. Even if you want profit, be patience, it's a principle, and never be decide or let anyone rush you into their own timeline of success, it destroys. 

A true blogger zero off his or her mind from making money on their blog. Instead, they take their time on writing something informative to heal the wounded part of the world, please note that.

Upcoming bloggers should blindfold the negative thinking's of their mind from getting the attention of making instant money from blogging. Instead, share out your knowledge of creativity in other to become a scriptural features in the sight of your own kinds.

Nothing is more greater than telling the truth you speak, it's like bringing out the original copy of your true self for others to capture the structure of you in becoming useful creatures in the future. Doing that alone will rewrite the history of man and the things within him.

Take a look at the era of blogging today, you will notice it is mostly crowded with entertainments and has risen lots of false messages among individuals. Some focus on the sharing gossips, gist, trending music and videos, while others focus on the sharing of news, stories, and educational information.

The Truth Is:

People nowadays are searching for transformation in other for them to grow, imagine someone reading your blog contents with the hope of feeding their minds with something to enlighten them of becoming useful beings but later realized that your content added no value in them, believe me, in t will pollute their sense of reasoning leading into a confused state. Why do you think people suffers today? it is the lack of support that prevents them from growing and has made them remain where they are today. 

When you cook a blog with informative contents it will help build a strong foundation within your readers and also spreading your messages around the world.


The only way to better up the community of blogging, one needs to generate the habit of writing something unique in other to share it with their readers and also help in solve certain problems among individuals.

Today, i urge every site, forum and blog owners and also online content writers to be original in writing and sharing informative topics that may help in one way or the other. my reference is to those who are popular and has been into online writing for years, other bloggers both new and old should take note of it.

In Conclusion

if this act is been conducted, believe me, every living being will have a story to tell and the future of the unborn ones will be in a perfected state, living in a world of free men.